{"id":1570,"date":"2021-12-01T14:05:45","date_gmt":"2021-12-01T14:05:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/?p=1570"},"modified":"2021-12-01T14:05:45","modified_gmt":"2021-12-01T14:05:45","slug":"why-platonic-relationships-dont-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/2021\/12\/01\/why-platonic-relationships-dont-work\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Platonic Relationships don\u2019t Work"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-1571\" src=\"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/1_AofHADQ8Wwl78AprvxJOhA-300x181.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"181\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/1_AofHADQ8Wwl78AprvxJOhA-300x181.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/1_AofHADQ8Wwl78AprvxJOhA-768x463.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/1_AofHADQ8Wwl78AprvxJOhA.jpeg 780w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A platonic friendship or platonic love is \u201can intimate relationship, especially between two persons of the opposite sex, that is characterized by the absence of sexual involvement\u2026\u201d According to dictionary.com.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, platonic love occurs when a man and a woman have a special bond where they deeply care for and respect each other, lean on each other in great times and in hard times, and share similar interests and values, but they don\u2019t pursue things romantically.<\/p>\n<p>With platonic love, you\u00a0could even feel love at first sight if you\u2019re drawn to someone instantly because you two share a passion for a certain activity or subject. But love in the romantic sense just isn\u2019t part of the equation. (At least not intentionally, more on this later.<\/p>\n<p>A platonic love relationship is not friends with benefits or hooking up. There can\u2019t be a sexual aspect to the relationship or it will no longer be considered platonic. Platonic lovers just aren\u2019t a thing.<\/p>\n<p>Since there are no romantic feelings on both sides in order for a friendship to be platonic, unrequited love or feelings from one person \u2014 or both people \u2014 would also disqualify a relationship from being platonic.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPlatonic friendship\u201d might seem a little redundant at first glance. After all, friendships are platonic by definition, right? Platonic friendship specifically refers to friendship between man and woman who could, in theory, feel attracted to each other.<\/p>\n<p>At some point, one or both people might experience some passing sexual tension or briefly wonder, \u201cWhat if we\u00a0did\u00a0try dating?\u201d It may seem like the relationship could go either way \u2014 continue as friendship or turn toward romance.<\/p>\n<p>Platonic relationships can be fun and healthy. It\u2019s a chance to get to understand the cerebral side of someone, instead of how good they are in bed. There are no demands, just sharing good times. Maybe if more of us just sat and talked, we might be able to fix the world.<\/p>\n<p>Men and women have vastly distinctive views of what it means to be \u201cjust friends\u201d \u2014 and that these different views have the potential to lead to problems. Although females seem to be genuine in their belief that opposite-sex friendships are platonic, men seem unable to turn off their desire for something more. And even though both genders agree overall that attraction between platonic friends is more negative than positive, men are less likely than females to hold this view.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A platonic friendship or platonic love is \u201can intimate relationship, especially between two persons of the opposite sex, that is characterized by the absence of &hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1571,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1570","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psychology"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1570","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1570"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1570\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1572,"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1570\/revisions\/1572"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1571"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1570"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1570"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1570"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}