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Choice.<\/strong> Every day we make a choice to either be grateful and happy, or we choose to see the bad in everything and be miserable. No matter what may come our way, we choose how to react and how we allow it to affect us. It\u2019s okay to be sad and unhappy sometimes, but it\u2019s not okay when it becomes a habit.<\/p>\n This state of mind unfortunately does becomes a habit if we allow it.<\/strong>\u00a0Many times, unhappy people are stuck in that way of life, thriving on the pity and sympathy of others.<\/p>\n When someone is unhappy or just plain miserable it\u2019s pretty hard for them to see the good around them or even see that they are in this negative cycle caused by only themselves.<\/strong><\/p>\n Instead, they blame, complain, and moan at every chance they get.<\/p>\n They are the victim<\/strong> They love to complain<\/strong> They Fear criticism<\/strong> They love to gossip<\/strong> They love drama<\/strong> They struggle to trust<\/strong> Choice. Every day we make a choice to either be grateful and happy, or we choose to see the bad in everything and be miserable. … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":694,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[49],"class_list":["post-693","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psychology","tag-misery"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/693","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=693"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/693\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":695,"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/693\/revisions\/695"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/694"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=693"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=693"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tipsforahealthylife.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=693"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nIn every story an unhappy person tells, they are the victim. To them, their lives are too hard to tolerate or control, and that\u2019s everyone else\u2019s fault. They will never accept responsibility for their actions. Feeling helpless doesn\u2019t make things better and subconsciously, unhappy people start to thrive on others’ pity and sympathy.<\/p>\n
\nUnhappy people love to moan about how terrible their lives are. In fact, almost all they ever do is complain. All Unhappy people focus on are their problems and the negatives in their lives rather than seeing the good or finding a solution to what they are complaining about.<\/p>\n
\nWorrying about what others think is a huge habit of unhappy people. While many of us are concerned, to some degree, about what people think, the unhappy person takes it a step further and goes to any length to shut down critics and they refuse to accept any form of criticism.<\/p>\n
\nUnhappy people are unsatisfied with their own lives, so the focus on others\u2019 lives and try to find fault in them. Saying negative things about others makes the unhappy person feel a false sense of betterment. Happy people don\u2019t have time to talk about other people\u2019s lives and downfalls, they are far too focused on the good on their own.<\/p>\n
\nWhenever there\u2019s drama, rest assured the unhappy person will be there. They want to be a part of it so that they can ensure the drama continues. They like to add fuel to the fire, exaggerate situations to make things worse and then compare others drama to their own miserable lives so that others can be stuck in an unhappy state of mind\u00a0with them.<\/p>\n
\nEven the most introverted people need friends, we need people to love and to love us. That\u2019s what life is all about! Love! But unhappy people struggle to form bonds and maintain friendships because they fear being hurt, they don\u2019t like it when people won\u2019t feel sorry for them or when they disagree with their negative points of view. When friends and loved ones try to show them that life isn\u2019t so bad, they see it as a betrayal and think nobody understands. This means they end up lonely and even more miserable, thinking the world is out to get them.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"