After the age of 30, you will encounter these 5 changes

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Many popular cultures often portray 30 as the best years of adult life.

Because people at this time have gotten rid of the financial and personal insecurity of their 20s, but they have not yet approached the middle-aged challenges of their 40s and 50s. It is said that the 30s are the best age for freedom and responsibility.

According to some studies, 35 years old is the “best age”, and true happiness begins at 33 years old. Most people who live to be over 90 years old think that 30 years old is the best decade of their lives.

Nonetheless, people find that 30 is a period of crisis, changes in the biological clock, and heightened dissatisfaction at work.

The following are psychology’s research and views on the changes in people around the age of 30.

The focal point of major changes in life
At the age of 30, many people, usually face changes in work and life.

For example, if you want to change jobs, or move to a different city to live, buy a house, or even get married, have children, etc., then you are most likely to do it when you are about to turn 30.

Those who have entered or are about to enter their 30s may undergo a kind of “life audit” to assess the meaning and satisfaction of life.

According to a recent study, we tend to use ten years of experience as an opportunity to evaluate life paths and make changes.

Researchers observed the behavior of “9-year-olds” (29, 39, 49, etc.). They said that the new decade will often stimulate the exploration of meaning and may lead us to “imagine entering a new era.”.

Therefore, many major changes and even crises occurred around the age of 30. During this period, if you make the right decisions, your next life will be more prosperous.

Otherwise, you may have to face various troubles in work and life.

Sexual needs will change
What impact will the 30-year-old have on the body and mind? The first thing to bear is your sex life.

For men and women, changes in body hormones are often an unfavorable factor in their 30s.

Perhaps, for this reason, women at this age are more likely to get the climax of sex. However, men at this age often feel powerless about “sex” due to the high pressure of work and life.

According to related research, women in their 30s and early 40s are more eager for sex than younger or older women. They reported more sexual fantasies and actual sexual behaviors.

Many women in their 30s said that they feel that they are sexier and more suitable for their bodies than they were in their 20s, so they have a better sex life.

Men’s desire for sex usually fades after the age of 35. Of course, some people may have had this situation earlier.

Disharmony in sexual life is a problem that many people often encounter after the age of 30.

Can reach the top of a career
People in their 20s usually finish their studies and experience unemployment.

If you choose the right career path at this time, and you can get a promotion after working for a long time. Then in the next ten years, there will be a more professional and economic success.

For most people, 30 to 39 years old is the peak of their careers. According to analysis, people in their 30s are expected to reach the peak of income growth at the age of 39 on average.

A study of scientific innovators and Nobel Prize winners shows that if you are an artist or a scientist, you are most likely to make the biggest creative breakthrough when you are almost 30 years old.

If your income or abilities have not broken through this period, then there is a high probability that your life will be frozen in this way.

If you are not satisfied with your chosen career path, you may feel bad about your job. Some studies have shown that compared with people in their 20s and 40s, people in their 30s are more dissatisfied with their work and more emotionally exhausted.

Therefore, how to make good use of the 30-year-old period is a matter for all of us to consider.

Personality may not change much
Harvard psychologist William James said that after the age of 30, the character “set like a plaster.” James believes that with the emergence of adulthood, personality tends to stabilize.

Our core personality traits are at least partly determined by genetics. But from childhood to our 20s, our personalities have undergone significant changes, and as we approach 30, these changes will slow down.

Although our basic personality traits will not change much after we are 30 years old, this does not mean that we cannot challenge ourselves. Only when life is stable, so is the personality.

But as long as you want, you can still challenge yourself and increase your abilities. The premise is that you can make up your mind about change.

The best time to plant a tree is of course 10 years ago, but don’t forget the next sentence: The second best time is now.

Encountered a mid-life crisis
Every decade has a crisis, and the 30-year-old is no exception.

The “Youth Crisis” is not only a popular cultural phenomenon but also a psychological phenomenon. It is the predecessor of the “Middle-aged Crisis.”

The “middle-age crisis” can occur at any age group between 25 and 35 years old. It usually occurs around the age of 30.

Generally speaking, the psychological anxiety and doubts of existence during this period are triggered by unsuccessful work or relationships.

As a result, you will have the desire to change, find a plan to leave the current situation, and then start to rebuild your own life.

This is the best way to overcome a crisis.

Of course, this may be a difficult process, but it is worth it in the end. Maintaining an optimistic attitude will help you fight any difficulties.

Having said that, don’t think that when you reach 30, your life will become gloomy.

Why do we have to worry so much? Work hard to change things that can be changed, and continue to achieve our future goals, so that everything appears and happens in an orderly manner.

So in the end, because we can lay a good foundation, happiness in life will come as scheduled.

 

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